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Vince Higgins OTW's avatar

I was professionally tested and diagnosed at the age of ten as ADHD/Gifted. I struggled all of my life because my gifts often threatened others, and I lacked the social skills that should have told me to mask it better.

In my case the evolutionary advantage involved tool making. I feel this is one of the key elements of the development of human civilization. I excelled in a career that involved those skills. In fact the trade was called Tool and Die Making.

Evolution does not lead to perfection. Darwin says as much (I actually read On the Origin of Species later in life.) I was often sabotaged in the workplace by people whose intellect focussed inward (narcissism) and were envious and insecure about my problem solving traits.

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Edie Patterson's avatar

This is me- late diagnosed at 67, (female, figures). I did well with multiple choice tests partly because I moved on quickly from questions I wasn’t sure of. I solve problems fairly quickly and sometimes unusually, etc, etc. But the social aspect of those gifts was isolating and it’s a huge relief to know now the “why” of me. Life is SO much less anxiety-inducing than before my diagnosis. There’s still the grief of missed opportunities, but there’s almost always something to regret in life so no point in dwelling on it. Thanks for this article.

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