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Mmerose's avatar

Just an anecdote: I had an intention, throughout a day with several errands, to go to certain post office to mail my election ballot in advance of other this and that. Here to start with. Drat! On my way to next place, forgot the ballot mailing. Next place, going wrong direction, now I'm steaming, got to go back to Post Office. On my way to third place, I literally yelled at myself out loud! (auditory?) I did finally make it to mail my ballot, at least before final destination. Incidentally (or not) all my dreams are what I call "rat race" dreams: trying to meet someone, go somewhere, find something, can't get there.....

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Peggy Magilen's avatar

It's very interesting what you described about helping ADHD individuals remember information, with the thinking of pictures, particularly in unusual visual situations with those objects.

Kristine Barnett wrote an amazing book called The Spark, in which she talks about raising her autistic son, who was also a genius. Genius or not, he was still autistic having those things that limit those individuals in certain ways, such as being around others, and unable to focus a lot on linear language and numbers, unless they're dealing with them outside-the-box like in poetry or some gestalt understanding of math, which often happens.

Kristine found that many she worked with while she was supporting her son (who loved astronomy and was a genius at knowing about astronomy), she knew that he and other autistic kids needed to practice how to sit in a circle for kindergarten-type activity, and other ways of learning how to socialize.

Kristine dealt with many individuals also who came to her, with their moms, they not speaking. With her son she found that he loved ABC cards, absolutely loved them, these proving that underneath that reluctance to talk, given the right situation, he in a planetarium with college students, at three years old, knew the answer to the complex question that was asked about why a certain planet had elliptical moons instead of round. Her son, Jake, speaking very little before, said there wasn't enough gravitational pull in order to pull them into round moons. So his passion, and freedom to use his ABC cards any day, and dragging an astronomy huge book around their home, got him to speak; proved he could speak but needing that teasing to bring his speaking forth.

In the case of others who came to his mom for help, who were not speaking, they also loved ABC cards, or some particular thing. When one boy came who was 11 and was not speaking, Kristine laid out ABC cards everywhere on the floor around him. This kind of obtuse experience, visual over-simulation experience/imagining, as talked about with the ADHD individuals that you shared, she said please find a letter to begin a word ending in at. He found C for cat, H hat, and kept going, he knowing how to spell within. Very soon she asked him to watch her lips and say with her or after her, "I love you mom," and he did. So, speaking is in there, it just needs the right stimulus as did with the ADHA, the right picture to remember what to buy at the store.

Another girl loved cupcakes, so Kristine and the girl baked 300 cupcakes and frosted them and this prompted that girl, who was 12 or 13 to be able to speak. So there's something about the overstimulation or exaggeration in thought or direct experience, that helps to kick the left brain verbal abilities into activity. Thus the right brain of connection, even an inner quiet knowing, can be invited out into speaking or remembering with an over abundance of visual or imagined stimulation. kicking in the shaping ability of letters and numbers of the left brain, to bring forth and/or remember words.

Another quick example, slightly different. In the movie Patch Adams with Robin Williams, who wore a big red clown nose to lighten up the experience of patients, knew an older lady who could continue living well, but had given up on life. She loved pasta. So he had a doughboy pool filled with pasta noodles, and he and the staff got in and she was invited to join. She did, she loved it and renewed her desire to lead a vibrant life.

The mystery of life appears to be wedding exhilarating experience with the stimulated ability to remember and use words, or the with the will to live, and also because others have gone a long distance to include and recognize the abilities and passions in these individuals.

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