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Gloria J. Maloney's avatar

Thom deserves my thanks for helping me see that ADHD is not disorder, but another way of being in the world. At this point in time, people with the gift of ADHD often don't fit in places created for the majority and need to find their own way.

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Vince Higgins OTW's avatar

In what may be true ADHD fashion it took me a week to get to this. My own journey started before being tested at the age of ten and diagnosed with an IQ of 140. ADHD was part of that diagnosis. At the age of eight I was dealt corporal punishment at the hands of a mother superior at a catholic school. I did not know what I had done to deserve it. I suspect now it was my lack of blind faith in what I was being told. My gifts may have made the nuns think I was possessed.

Shortly after that incident we were placed in public school where I was tested and diagnosed. At fourteen my family moved to a new town, with a supposedly better school system. I was auditioned for a program for gifted students. I was the only one in the test group to not get into the program. ADHD had me perform the audition my own way.

I nearly flunked out of high school. I was bullied. Some of the bullying was done by teachers. They favored the "popular" kids and looked down at geeky nerds like me. I was unmotivated to try. I believe the administrators of the school system were ADHD deniers. My needs were dismissed. My complaints about the algebra teacher who looked the other way when I was bullied in his class were ignored.

I got a degree in engineering twenty years after barely graduating from high school. Part of that was doing high school over at community college where the social dynamic was not as negative.

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